officially the word is that you aren’t really married until you walk down the aisle, say ‘i do’ and then sign the paper. however, you are pretty much there once you put the invitations in the mail. this weekend we got all of our invitations stuffed and stamped (thanks Gary and Beverly). i’ve checked and rechecked the list and i know that we are ready to go! we were going to go to the post office today, but we discovered that the main branch of the post office is open on Sundays (did you know that?) so we are going to take them tomorrow so we can make a memory of it rather than just including it in a list of things we need to get done.